There was a recent video online that I found illustrative. It was clearly a scripted conversation told from a feminist perspective to try to make the traditional notions of marriage and family life look “oppressive” to women. The husband is expressing to his wife (who is wearing a police uniform) that he wishes that she would be a traditional stay-at-home wife. The wife rolls her eyes during his soliloquy (which is itself a parody of what real men who want traditional wives actually desire).

A name is not just an accident; neither is it a convention which can be repealed by majority vote at the next meeting; once a thing has been given a name, it appears to have a certain autonomous right to that name, so that it could not be changed without imperiling the foundations of the world.